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The key to a good relationship is respect: respect for your partner, and respect for yourself. He did not respect you, and if you allow him to treat you that way without consequence, then you are not respecting yourself. I would advise at least spending some time away from him if not breaking up altogether. Go out with friends. Have some fun and learn to value yourself as an individual, not just as half of a couple. If he really cares, he will come back to you. But if you don't leave him, then he'll never treat you with the respect you deserve.
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| Responded: Guest |
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Is keeping this man in your life worth loosing yourself? I think its time to let him go. Hell, I know you love him but the heart can be deceitful to ones mind. PLEASE PUT YOUR HEART ASIDE FOR THIS, and consider the facts…. This man has lied, cheated, and refuses to compromise with you. Can you define love from any of those adjectives? If this man truly loved you like you love him, the ex girlfriend, myspace, and cheating would not be an issue.
I know the process of letting him go may seem unbearable, but it’s not impossible. If you care about salvaging any type of self respect, sanity, and eventual happiness LET HIM GO! You will become a stronger person for it, and you will eventually run into your real soul mate.
If you decide to keep him as he is, prepare yourself for a life of bitterness and pain because he will never stop cheating, lying , and not compromising.
Remember, bitter hearts start out as consistently broken hearts.
Don’t let this man make you his fool.
PS: Look up the definition of love, and the definition of soul mate, and then look at your situation.
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| Responded: Leslie |
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(I think) You should grab him so your both looking in each others eyes and ask him if he loves you. If he hesitates or doesn't say yes then maybe he isn't so serious...
Definitely don't be depressed. If you truelly love him and he truely loves you then just sit down and talk about it for a while. If you are able to trust him, then he should be able to have a myspace account. Let him no how you feel and tell him how much he has hurt you.
But as far as I'm concerned, if he's making you cry then he doesn't love you. A guy should never make his gf/wife cry and if he does, he better be saying sorry for a long time... (maybe that's just how I was raised, though, cause my dad "mistreated" my mom).
I'm normally no good with relationship advice but since no one else has posted I might as well try to help. Just remember to be happy and positive and hope for the best.
Best of luck,
James
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| Responded: James |
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okay it kind of sounds like even though you may believe this person is your soulmate, he doesnt believe the same... and he cant really be your soulmate if he doesnt feel the same way,dont you think? Also, feeling depressed isnt healthy especially when its due to a relationship issue. I know what its like to love someone very much and cant imagine what youre going through. But in reality, sometimes letting go, even though it seems like the hardest and most impossible thing to do, is sometimes the best thing. Hope that helps
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| Responded: Guest |
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I can see the pain and the love. Make him understand how he would have felt if you cheated on him.
You both love each other and I think you should be together again.
Thanks
Matt
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I've been with a guy for three and a half years today. I found out on Sunday that he cheated on me once three years ago and then once the night before (saturday) with his ex. I've asked him to stop talking to her for the whole time we've been dating. I am so heart broken. I love him so much but that hurt me more than anything. He says he's not going to do it ever again, but I really don't trust him. I've asked him to delete his myspace, but he doesn't want to. I really want to try to start trusting him, but I know I can't if he has a myspace. I love him so much. I had a job interview this morning at a job that I REALLY wanted. I got the job, but the second I walked out of the building I started crying. I cry all the time. I'm so depressed all the time. I don't feel like myself. I love him so much, but it's not fair that he's treating me like this. What do I do? Should I take him back and accept that he cheated and get over that he has a myspace because I love him so much and I believe he is my soulmate? Or should I just keep going on being depressed and hopefully get better.
