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Wow. I wonder if my ex feels like you do? Like I am a mistake he made and because I still reach out to him does he feel like this one mistake will haunt him for a lifetime?My ex was my first boyfriend. My bestfriend. My everything. So when the relationship ended, it was/is very difficult for me to just STOP. STOP liking... STOP loving... STOP wanting... STOP hoping... STOP reaching out... STOP trying.I suppose you should call her or email her and tell her exactly how you feel. The truth can be brutal. Maybe, hopefully, I will think of your post, the next time I want to talk to my ex.
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| Responded: Wonder |
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Sweeter: I'm not sure if I could bring myself to calling her. She did an awful thing (cheated) on me. I don't quite feel like I'm ready for that step just yet. When the day comes, when all is fine, then maybe I give her a call.I wish I have the answer you are seeking. I know how you must feel. I've been there. Yes, the truth hurts, but sometimes it helps. As for the mistake thing, it's just my opinion. All ppl don't think the same as me. Maybe I'm just weird.
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| Responded: Furious |
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Hi Furious ,If you don't want to talk to her, maybe you could consider writing her a long letter to explain your feelings. This could give you the chance to think over exactly what you need to say(without her interrupting) to her to get her to realize that it's over. If she hasn't given up calling after several months of you not responding,a phone call from you may just encourage her behavior. Good luck to you.
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| Responded: Som243 |
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hey Furious , i believe you should stop trying..I'm sure she's annoyed of that situation..don't keep pushing her..I've been there. I broke up with my ex 7 months ago, but he's still chasing me..I told him 100 times i wanted him to back off, but he wouldn't listen. I tried everything to let him understand that i don't want him by my side..He never understood..i changed my # so that he couldn't call me, but that didn't work..He keeps calling on my friends' numbers and asking about me..he sends me tons of emails everyday..I don't reply..I once told him i had a boyfriend, however he didn't believe me..i was very tough with him and kinda cruel, but that didn't work..i many times told him that i hate the way he keeps trying..He was like " i'll keep trying till the day i die!" Ooh my goodness i don't know what to do..I'm sick of him..Iknow you wouldn't be like him bluie..no body is like him..he's just a teenager who's mad about love..since you tried and it didn't work then let her go, though it's hard..but you gotta make it..i'm sure she doesn't like you trying to get her back, i'm sure she moved on with her life..you gotta do the same dear..
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| Responded: Mereena |
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Thanx everyone for all your advice. I think I'll go with Glitch's idea and continue ignoring her. The letter thing just might not work. I know her too well.On a lighter note, always look on the brighter side. Life is what you make it.
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| Responded: Furious |
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