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Views: 146 | Started By: LiqidBlaze | Replies: 3
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Me and My X girlfriend broke up about 3 weeks ago, and all she has been doing is playing mind games with me, she saying things that tears me apart, and then she says she is joking. Also over the summer we broke up she hooked up with my bestfriends brother twice at two diffrent times. I still wonder where she is and what she is doing. We have been going out for almost 2 years. I get butterflies, I also wait for her to call me. She calls my cell phone and asks where i am or what i am doing then she hangs up. I worry about her still everyday. Can u give me some advice how to move on and not think about her so much? IS it that im afriad to let go, and find someone new. Im really shy around girls that i like or haven't talked to, im scared to talk to them, is it that im afraid of not being able to find anybody else ?
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LigidBlaze: As I responded in my response to your other post, its time for you to move on. Let this woman out of your mind as you are the one keeping her there and no one else, let her go. Get on with your life!
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| Responded: Lostaggie |
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HeyYou're right, shes just playing with you, and she's probably having a lot of fun doing that! So im telling you...forget about her! Dont answer your phone when she calls, or when she calls just be like: Hey Im kinda busy right now...and I bet you she will do anything to find out why ur busy....so you can tell her ur "Talking to someone" that will make her mad and if she still wants u she will try to win you back, if not she'll leave u alone. She is not worth it...ur just wasting ur time...go out have some fun and meet new girlsHOLLERShawtyN
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| Responded: ShawtyN |
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Ok, from my recent breakup I've had time to think. Lots. It seems that your situation (takes me back in time a little) is one where you keep each other hanging on for awhile. The main thing I saw there is her saying the mean things, and saying its a joke. Now from experience --- there is truth in what you say jokingly. About whatever subject, weight, personality, looks, friends, money. The joker deep down has something about this joke that is constantly running around in the back of their mind. You can really tell if it's an issue if the same joke comes up more and more. It's not funny to hear that you're gaining weight or not being sexy as much anymore. And those little jokes tend to stay there in the back of your mind for a long time. Remove yourself from the cause, and the memories will soon fade.Worried about her? It's probably that thing that is so hard to get rid of, oh would that be jealousy? You still want her around, but probably for the wrong reasons. It seems there was not that good of a connection, like it or not. Calling each other, keeping tabs. Trying to appear more active than each other. Busier, with more guys/girls. You're playing it right back, cause you like it. This game drags you in, gives you a reason to try to still reach her. You probably have a really big physical attraction, and think you won't find someone like that or that it will take forever. Pull the wool off. How about you go out and find someone new? It will happen sometime, and I hope the new girl is more in tune with you.
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| Responded: Acervid |
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