I really need help! Post a Reply | Views: 2038 | Started By: BrokenAngel | Replies: 4 If you read my last post (I don't want to go on) then you know my story My B/F of 3 years recently left me for another woman well its only been a couple weeks but tonight he called me and said he made a terrible mistake and wants me back ( I think maybe she broke up with him) so my problem is I want to take him back so bad but I'm scared to death he is gonna do it again and I can't handle this much pain again!what should I do??

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I seriously would not take him back right now. It's obvious you are scared of it and it's obvious that you still need time to settle down and think things over before you get yourself into another relationship with him.While I don't at all respect what he did, there are reasons why things like that happen, most of the time because of something lacking in the relationship. I would not search for blame or a reason right now becuase it's pointless. What matters is, can you handle him and the fact that he's done this to you? Can you accept the fact that it's a possibility that it could happen again?Time is what you need, but whatever you do, make sure it's what you really want.I seriously hope this helps you out. Responded: EVA01   ok I talked to him again on the phone today for about an hour and I wanted to take him back so bad but I'm just so scared he really does sound like he misses me but what if he does it again??I'm so lonely for him and I miss his arms around me and I miss his smell I miss every thing I know I sound pathetic but I don't care he was and still is my world Responded: BrokenAngel   It's up to you, and only you. It depends on how much more you can take. While it always seems better to just want to stay with the person your comfortable with, sometimes it's the wrong thing to do, simply because your doing it out of desperation and lonliness. I'd stay away from him still, because I still am confident that he is still confused on what he wants right now. You cannot continue to be his rebound woman. He needs to grow up and move on and stop playing games. Responded: EVA01   Girl you got to do what your says to do you really want bad and all you can do is sit back and see how things go either you can take him back and things will be better than ever or you take him back and they dont work out but if you dont take him back at all then you just go liveing and you find some one who you can love and trust even more its gonna take time trying to trust him or anybody else but afterwhile you will learn that trust is a great thing and either the new guy is gonna hurt you or the old guy aint gonna hurt you again Responded: Guest