I feel terribly guilty... Post a Reply | Views: 2108 | Started By: Host | Replies: 2 We met at the Institute. We started dating since, I didn’t mind, partly ‘cause I was bored alone, and partly ‘cause I didn’t have any relations for two years already. I liked my future husband in bed only.. Nothing more seemed to bind us. In a month I met another guy who I fell in love desperately with. I broke off with the first one. He couldn’t believe me. Since then he would pester me, call regularly, asked me to forgive him (I don’t know what for…) I was mad with anger! Soon I found out that he had a girlfriend. I was really happy for him. Everything seemed to settle. We had a breath-taking passionate romance that lasted for half a year. Then he left… I was alone again. A year passed. Once I saw him at the Institute party. We talked for a long time. I felt guilty because I treated him wrong, and wanted to make it up. After the party we went for a cup of coffee at a nearest bar. In the morning we found ourselves together in one bed. We resumed our relations. I knew about his girlfriend, but couldn’t resist. In 3 months we moved to one apartment. It was a marriage of convenience for me, I didn’t have a strong feeling for him. It was in only several that I began to love my husband. We’ve been t’gether for 5 yrs already, we have a 3-year old daughter. He’s an ideal husband. Our daughter loves him very much, so do I. Now I’m so afraid to lose him… I treated him awful, but he forgave everything… I still feel guilty and I don’t know what will I do if he leaves.. Help!

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If he's forgiven you,it's best you forget...or try to...about the past....otherwise, your actions will possibly scare him away...at least it will affect your relationship. Part of forgiving is forgetting...it sounds like he has. Responded: max   I agree with max... Concentrate on being happy together. It doesn't seem like he is worried about the things that happened in the past. Responded: Guest