So Confused and Still in Pain Post a Reply | Views: 455 | Started By: SherryBerry | Replies: 6 I had a talk with my ex yesterday online and he told me that everyday he was w/ me he wanted to kill himself. He's always had problems as a child and even then he didn't want to live. I feel so lost and confused. I wanted to help him but he has to be the one that wants to change. And I know that no matter what, everyone will still have a part of their childhood self within them. He also told me that I was the one that changed and pretty much I'm the one that screwed everything up. I feel so hurt by that and I really don't know what happened and what to say really. Should I apologize for myself? I mean, I know I have done a few things out of my character. How could he propose to me if he felt that way? I mean, when you propose to someone, you mean it and you stick by your word, right? I am feeling so much pain and even though I thought I could be OK, I feel empty when I'm around my friends and when I try to be happy, there's still this big hole in me that can't be filled. I think my heart is breaking all over again.

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Pages:     1   2    Next     About him wanting to kill himself, I can understand if he deeply loved you and you ended things... Because, well, I wanted to do the same thing a while after my ex broke up... I told him and he stayed there for me trying to confort me even if of course that didn't work too well, because all I wanted was to be back with him because I loved him, I loved him more than myself... All he did was stay there, he talked to me for 4 hours and in the end, I felt a little bit better knowing he was there for me. I think all you can do is be there for him, let him feel that you still care... About the propose thing, I don't know anything about it, so I can't really tell you anything about that... Good luck! Responded: Spirit&Soul   Well, he's the one dat did the breakin' up. he told me dat he just doesn't love me anymore. And the proposal happened sometime last yr around september or something. Everything was great then. He really dropped a bomb on me. And I feel like I hurt him and maybe it was all my fault. Responded: SherryBerry   Maybe you should just let him kill himself. He deserves the Darwinism Award for Idiocy. Then you can eat his body and trap his soul, thus making fun of him forever for being such a girl. Responded: Mohammed   well,give him a chance cause you did say you were the one who broke up with him if he screws up them just let him killhimself Responded: jerry   umm.. wow stop being stupid first of all why do you talk to your ex? obviously you made him  unhappy and maybe it was someone else on his sn.. don't worry only people who kill themselves don't announce it they just do it im so sad.. good bye world -confucious Responded: confucious   Pages:     1   2    Next