I really want to be with my boy friend and be loved Post a Reply | Views: 243 | Started By: hena | Replies: 3 I am in love with a guy for 1 year. Actually he had a crush on me from first day of our college but we used to be good friends .he was so caring n nice. Then he proposed me after 4 months then I said him yes after a month. Every thing was going nice. Both of us have same views in many things. Our thinking used to match with each other. But things went on wrong when his parents know about us .he very much loves his parents. And his father is a heart patient. And his parents are very traditional and don't want him to involve in a relationship with me. So he 1st wanted me to end the relationship and be only friends as before. But I can't. I love him so much and desperately wanted to be with him. So we started to argue with each other. He told that he can't break his words with his parents. But after someday he asked me to meet him n kissed me on my lips out of nowhere. Then told me that he loves me and if he will convince his parents .if they don't agree then he will not marry anyone. We used to kiss each other. But we also started to argue frequently on stuffs .I found him changed so much. He used to lie n didn't speak to me so much. For the second time we broke up. Then know he tells me that he will do what ever his parents want. He doesn’t care for anybody for his parents. But I can't understand why does he still kiss me and do stuffs with me (not sex of course) he knows that he can't be with me. I can't stop him because I love him and I need him. He is very studious. And doesn't speak to other gals so much. When he looks at me his eyes say he loves me. But he can't help. He has to go away he clearly told me. But I can't. I always want to be with him. I can't dream of any other guy except him. Help me!!!!

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i read your article and it really makes me realize that you and i are almost the same.... i was really hurt by my bf for a while he doesnt understand me and i feel like i have no control in my life i luv him with all my heart and ive gotten to the point where i cant be hurt and im the one saying sorry and im tired of always giving and never receiving comprhension...it comes a time in our life when we have to let go of the thing we love the most because if not we'll never be trully loved live, nor be normal...its hard letting go..but eventually one has to know that he should have priorities...family..true..but are you not part of his family?...i pray that everything works out!!! best of luck Responded: jill   I know this sounds like a movie but it works, you have to make yourself unavalible, you have to be hard to get and that will make him go CRAZY if he really loves you.... personaly I would leave him alone, I know its hard but do you want for the rest of your life a guy who is going to put that wants of his parents in front of yours and his happiness togiether? try dating someone new and if you seroiusly think that he loves you, he will show up agian in your life.... its kinda like, if you love him let him go, if he loves you he'll come back. If he dosn't you can only learn from it.. and become stronger. Responded: Guest   I think that you should talk to his parents without him knowing, because his parents might get mad but they'll see how much you really love him Responded: Jasmina