I really need to be heard.. he kisses girls in front of me. Post a Reply | Views: 275 | Started By: jill | Replies: 7 Me and my bf have been going out for 9 months ..since day one he was like my savior and all for me..still is...but lately all he tells me is to back off..that he rather be with his friends and doesnt really want me involved..me and him talked since day one that i believed guys having girl friends was very disrespectful for me..because lets be honest..why else would i girl be friends with a guys if she doesnt like him... and now he kisses girls in front of me like nothing...i never in my life would do that to him with a "guy friend" no matter how long ive known him. because firstly i owe him respect and wouldnt want people to tell him that i was with a guy..it sounds and looks awful!!! so he had a problem with his father and i called and asked him what was wrong...and he yelled at me to shutup and that it was none of my business...i felt hurt and cried on the phone..all he did was hang up...the next day he called like nothing asking me to give him a ride to wrok..i went like a stupid puppy and drove him....when i got there all he did was tell me lets go..no hi no nothing....i was hurt again so i stayed quiet..he asked me "whats wrong?"..i told him nothing ..just seems you just call or want to talk when you need to use me....so when we got to his work he told me to fuck off and not call him...i cried and asked him why?..why do you do this to me..if you dont love me than just tell me the truth...but all he did was walk away...i went home and he called me later at night telling me that it was my fault for saying stupid things...i told him that it was ok...and i tried to kiss his ass once again...im so lost...because i feel that all the time im giving him his way and that he doesnt respect me at all...i love him so much and he doesnt understand that or doesnt care...please someone tell me what should i do...please

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Pages:     1   2    Next     Sweatheart, this guy is not worth your time or your tears. He may not be telling you he doesn't love you but his actions are. There are plenty of other guys out there and mr. right usually comes along when and where you least expect him to. A man who truely loves you will have your feelings and your happiness as a priority, this guy doesn't. You should be treated like a queen, never settle for anything else, ever. Just never settle. I wish you all the best in finding a new guy. Responded: yvonne   Well first of all its ok for guy's to have girls that are friends,theres nothing wrong with that,i have plenty and my girlfriend would never be jealous and same with her,she has alot of guy friends and i'm not jealous...we both respect each other and trust each other with theses kinds of things,but the fact that he kisses other girls,tells you to F*** off and tells you its his fault...he's a real idiot...you seem like a very nice person and you should get yourself a better man,he's obviously a pansy and a disrespectful rat for treating you like that,you didnt do anything wrong and you're just being nice and trying to be there for him...dump his ass and get a man that will treat you like a queen!!! If he disrespects you now he always will!! Responded: Tousoku   The guy is a loser. He is direspectful towards you and your feelings. DUMP HIM! he will hurt you more and more. Move on girl ,find yourself a good man! Responded: Guest   He sounds like a jerk!!! I totally agree dump him!! There are some really great guys out there, don't settle for him!! Responded: Guest   I know what you're goin through is hard. But no one can truly understand what YOU, YOURSELF is going through. I, also have been with my bf for 9 months and for most of our relationship i was decieved and lied to. I often think "why am i still with him." but its hard to tell someone to just leave their realtionship (no disrespect to those of you) when they don't know what you have been through for 9 months. Theres a saying that " if you love him let him go, if he comes back hes yours." its a risky idea i know but what else is there to do? that how i felt. either that  or you can stay with him in denial telling yourself it'll all be better. You feel like if you leave, you'll be sad and unhappy but the thing is if you stay you 'll be sad and unhappy. You know as i know that hes not the one you're looking for. You want someone who cares and respects you, and some who shows you that they care. I can't tell you what to do, i can only make you come to realize what you already know. If he won't change for you than it truly is his lost to loose comeone who loves him as much as you do.  A Man won't change his ways just cause you ask him to, He'll only change if he wants to. Responded: Guest   Pages:     1   2    Next