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Views: 240 | Started By: Allison | Replies: 3
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I'm having a difficulties with someone. It's really hard to explain what's going on though. This guy Josh, I've known him for five years. In thie time that I've known him he's been: single, dating.engaged, married, and seperated. But ever since I've known him, I've cared about him. When he got married (on my 17th birthday, oddly enough) I though that I'd never get a chance with him, not that he's seperated, I feel that God gave me a chance to make things right in both our lives. I know it makes him sound way older then I am, I'll be 19 Oct. 2 and he turned 23 a few months ago. I never would have thought I'd have a chance with someone like Josh, though. We don't have everything in common, even if we did that doesn't make a relationship. Through out his relationship with this girl, she treated him like a piece of garbage. Someone like Josh... I can't explain him, I can't even begin to explain him. Or how I feel for him. I don't care for him because he seems intrested in me, he's always asking me how I'm doing, what I'm doing, what I'm thinking. So one night not too long ago, he asked me what I was thinking, and I told him that he didn't want to know. He said he did, so I told him how I felt about him. Tears started rolling down my face, because I've never actually "put myself out there" to tell a guy how I felt about him. This was a big step for me. I told him not to say anything about it, he said, okay I won't. Then he asked me what I was Adoing the day after tommarrow!!! I was thinking, "what made him ask me that?"
Now, here lately, it feels to me that he's avoiding me. It maybe my imagination, but I'm too scared to ask him how he feels, maybe a relationship isn't what he needs right now. I really care about him, and I'd wait for him. What do you think I should do? Call him? See him? I care about him so much, maybe I should just wait to see what he needs, then decide. I really need help, this is tearing me apart
not knowing what to do.
Also, he told me awhile back that he needs someone like me, then a few days later I said I needed someone like him, then he asked me what I was doing at that moment, and that he wanted to take me on a ride. So I went, we never talked about getting together but we just talked and talked about everything. We drove a whole tank of gas out in 5 and a half hours, and didn't realize it. Is that a way of him seeing if something could work? I'm not sure. I need help, please, before I go crazy. I'd appreicate it, thank you so much for reading...
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please can someone help me. I really need advice. I haven't gotten anything from from where I've posted this. Help please? 
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| Responded: allison |
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I think you need to go for it. If you really care about him, you need to tell him your feelings. If you wait too long then he may find another girl. You may never know what will happen if you don't try. If you love him....i mean LOVE him, then go for it. You may regret it in a few years if you don't. Try it, let him know how you feel and don't let anything hold you back, just let it all out.
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| Responded: Dustin |
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the truth is the only one who can change his life is him, trust me i know because i was chasing this one guy for like a year and i was chasing him because i thought i could change him, trust me he's not going to change because in movies they make it seem like you can change someone and you really can't
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| Responded: jasmina |
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