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Views: 2673 | Started By: PePpEr MiNt | Replies: 6
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There is this guy, luis, and i gave him something, that to me was very special. You see i knew him for 3 years, and had a huge crush on him the whole time, he is 2 years older than me so i always thought he was out of my leauge. Then we started hanging out with the same people,and spending more time together, he was always so nice to me, he treated me like i was something so fragile and not to be touched by anyone, but never showed n e signs that he liked me, he just was really nice, then one day we kissed, and then alot of other stuff happen that night, and since then he doesn't talk to me, he's never mean to me, and he still does some of the nice things he used to do, but he has totally changed and i have totally fallin in LOVE with him, when i see him i melt, but i don't know what to do? i think everything about him is perfect, even if he won't barely speak to me, i love him but he doesnt' love me and there is nothing i can do about it... is there?
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hey hon,the only thing i know to tell u is to try to talk to him about it. sorry i don't have any wonderful advice, but it really sounds like u need to just talk to him and see what he's feeling.*good luck*
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| Responded: baritonebabe |
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PePpErMiNt,You sound confused about this relationship, and quite possibly, he could be as well.I, nor anyone else, have the ability to tell you what you should do, but I do agree with "baritonebabe." To find out anything you have ever wanted to know - you must go to the source.Be polite and ask him if something is wrong and if he needs to talk. If he says nothing is wrong, and that "no" he doesn't need to talk, then tell him that you DO and ask him if he could at least be courteous and listen to you because what you have to say concerns him.Tell him how you felt about the time you spent together in the past, and whichever way you spent it is none of our (lovingyou.com's) business.If he cares about you at all, or if he ever did (Keep in mind that I'm not saying he didn't.), he should listen to you. He should care enough to help you as best he can.If he doesn't understand that what you gave him was important, then let him know JUST how important that gift was that you gave him. Chances are, he simply doesn't realize it.If, however, after all that you have to say to him, he still acts stragely towards you, let him know. Not to say that doing so will accomplish anything, but trying will at least give you some sense of resolve - knowing that you have done all that you can to understand whatever it was that he did/does/ or will do to you given the chance.Also . . . . keep in mind that the past is the past. Not everything we do in life we completely enjoy afterwards. People make mistakes, and people learn to live with them. If, in the end, you regret giving Louis this gift, know that it was given in a special circumstance. It was given with love, compassion, and was an act of a truly pure emotion. If this gift was so very special to you, then be happy - at least for the reasons you had originally given it to him. If he cannot understand the importance of this gift, then at least you will. Giving this gift, in your eyes, should not be a reward to him for achieving it, but an award to you for reaching the emotional capacity to feel the need and ability to give it.Be happy in life, but keep all that is good with you - past AND present.I hope I have helped you.
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| Responded: Siren |
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u "love" him. how? u dont even know him dat well if u cant even ask him why he's being so weird with you. well i dont believe in love but in obsession because guys are DICKS all they care bout is gettin some
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| Responded: ThisLittleOne |
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I believ the guy is confused.. and his in the state wether also to like you or not..i guess you should talk to him straight to the point..what worst can happen to you right.
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| Responded: rose |
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don't listen to thislittleone.
you shouldn't take advice from people who seem to need help themselves.
anyway; hun. you gotta talk to this guy.
from what you've said; he seems like a real sweetie.
&& even if he doesn't feel for you the same; he'll totally understand.
in my opinion; he has something for you too.
maybe he's just insecure; or shy.
he seems like a great guy; so don't give it up.
tell him how you feel && everything will go downhill. 
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| Responded: dimples. |
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