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He was dating you at the same time?
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| Responded: kencole |
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I am new at this but I thought to respond to your question.. I am very sorry that your boyfriend is engaged to someone else? why would he do that if he was supposed to be with you? It doesnt make any sense to me. He was defently dishonest from the start if we was cheating on you with someone else. Have you talked to him about it? have you confronted him with the news? does the other person now that she was being cheated on as well. If was going out with the both you? at the same time.I personally think you are better off with out him if he can't remain faithful in a relationship?Its normal to be lost and sad and hurt when you find something like that out. I am very sorry ad I hope you are doing okay. Have you talked with any of your friends..i find that always helps to have someone to talk to when you find out bad news or that your boyfriend cheated on with you someone else and is now going to marry that person.I wish I could tell you what do but that is up to you. YOu can talk to the person once you had a chance to calm down and think about things. Just take things one day at a time and start to move on from this jerk. I am sorry to say that but any guy who cheats and lies to a girl is total loser in my book. Why would any guy who is with you want to be with someone else? it makes no sense to me. There is no execuse for what he did to you. or to the girl he cheated with you on as well. I have learned that the truth always comes out in some shape or form...anyways I am sorry for what happend to you and I hope everything works out for you and that one day you do find happiness again with someone who will respect you, be honest with you, and love you and not want to be with someone else. The whole point of being in a commited relationship is that you don't want t be someone else you want to spend your time with that one person. learn about them, talk, share, and love and have a meaningful relationship with openeses and trust and honesty. I again wish you luck and hope i this hard time. I am sure you wlll come out stronger for it.i hope i was able to help you.good luck
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| Responded: sunflower79 |
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| You mean he was your bf all these while and all of a sudden he got engagged to someone else??? how long were you with him?
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| Responded: Tranquiling |
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Hi kencole, sunflower79, and tranquiling How are you ? thanks for caring and replying... kencole yes we were together but he was in a different country for university...after 1 semester away he came back and after asking him why he was acting wierd he told me his parents wanted him to marry somegirl...it was arranged .. and that he tried to get out of it and that he told his mother about me and that he wanted to propose to me but she didnt allow him!!! sunflower79 thanks a lot a lot a lot yes you did make me feel better. All this time i was trying to figure out what was wrong with me and why his mother disapproved of his marriage to me...where what i should have been trying to figure out was what was wrong with him and why didn't he stand up for our love. Tranquiling we were together for a year but it was an amazing year i really thought he was the one it was unbelievable the way he loved me and i loved so much i still do... i'm so confused and hurt...i wish you all love and magical relationships..with happy ending
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| Responded: Carrey |
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It's 4 am here i cant sleep.. i joined msn and he sent me a mesage and talked to me as though there was never anything between us and that we were just friends...he was tearing my heart...then i was checking my mail and opened an old e-mail he sent me before it was full of love and devotion...how could someone love so much and then forget.... i cant bare the fact that he's with her now...
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| Responded: Carrey |
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