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well,if my information is inaccurate,it's because of the way you stated your post and gave misleading information.all you said was that you knew tina for 7 mos and had contact with her those 7 mos. and that you were a couple for 5 and 1/2 mos.never once did you mention a break up in there.doesn't that sound like you were friends for the first 1 and 1/2 mos. you knew her and have been a couple with her for the last 5 and 1/2 mos.?in which if that were the case,your relationships would have overlapped so,if you want me to be accurate about my info,you should state it accurately.don't assume everyone knows every sorted detail about your life.
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| Responded: sweetie-pai |
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i think she's lying. i see a lot of the classic 'red flags' in your post. if you havent talked to her and heard her voice, for all you know she could be the brother she's invented. the picture can easily be faked, after all, if you have no other visuals, like video, to compare it to. there used to be a member on here (maybe she's still around?) who was fooled for a long time by a girl pretending to be a guy. the person in that relationship always came up with excuses on why they couldnt talk on the phone because they were afraid their secret would come out.on the other hand, she could be married or otherwise attached and the person posting is her boyfriend/husband.on yet another hand, she could just be a liar all the way around and enjoy stringing you along.either way, something isnt right.
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| Responded: Girl |
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I agree with girl - there's a couple of worrying red flags here. Did you know she had a twin brother at all or did you just not know he was on that forum? It sounds like you didn't know at all. You'd think that if someone was a twin it would be one of the first things that they told you, even before you became a couple. Have you asked her why she was lying to you? Try to bring it up in a non-confrontational way. You could ask if there's some kind of problems between her and 'her brother'. Or perhaps she has just made this brother up, because you were so suspicious that it was her using that username.5 months of dating does seem like a reasonable time to give you her number. Has she gone into detail about why she won't. She mentioned her mother - is she under 18? Well, I do hope that you can talk to her on the phone soon. It's tough to be in a relationship where you don't have enough trust / love to talk on the phone.
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| Responded: Animalover |
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yeah I think she's lying to you in some ways... something just doens't seem right at all... like monsterina mentioned, first she didn't tell you she had a twin bro? how odd does that sound?then she tells you it's him that's posting here and before she said she didn't have a clue... and now after 7 months she doesn't want to give you her cell? after all that time, she should be dying to want to talk on the phone or on the mic through your messengers...have you talked to some of her friends online? like did she invite you to chats with her friends? and as for her mentionning her mom, then tell her that you can talk to her mom so that her mom knows who you are if that can maybe solve the problem...she now needs to be totally honnest with you...
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| Responded: CareeresVSrelationships |
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Hi all, no i didnt know she had a brother let alone a twin brother! She said he lives with her dad as her parents are divorced and she doesnt see him much. I find it strange that she has never mentioned him as previously she has always been quite open about her life and her family. As for the forum i always thought it was Tina because of the huge similarities in the information given on the forum profile. When i asked her why she had never mentioned him she said it was because he had asked her not to and that they dont like being known as brother and sister! With regards to her giving me her phone number all she says is that it is a family thing and she will have to ask her mum first but she never gets round to asking her. Your right Spirit&Soul, i would of thought after 7 months she would of been dying for us to talk but she just seems reluctant all the time and non commital when trying to make any firm plans. Tina is 19 and turns 20 in december by the way so yeah she is over 18. With regards to talking to her mom that is a good idea which i shall mention tho i doubt she will go for it! Thanks everyone for you input, suggestions and support! I will keep you updated on how things go.Take care
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| Responded: garry13 |
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