I'm in trouble!! Help!!! Post a Reply | Views: 1344 | Started By: garry13 | Replies: 19 Hi all.I'm going out with a girl called Tina. We have had some problems in the time we have been together but always managed to overcome them. Now however i have this uneasy feeling and im not sure what to think. Its like this:I have known Tina for 7 months now and being a couple for 5 and half months and got to know her and things about her eg: like her family quite well. Well last nite after 7 months she tell me she has a twin brother who posts on the same forum that i do. As u can imagine it came as quite a shock after all this time, and obviously while it is her choice as to what she tells me about her family i feel a little decieved. Not only that but the ID her brother uses on the forum i always thought was her and told her so and she kept denying it and said she didnt know who it was. Well given that it is actually her brother she obviously did know and for the last couple of months or so has lied about that too! The thing that is worrying me most tho is her reluctance to give me her mobile phone number. I gave her mine 3 months ago in the hope she would call or text me but she hasnt and keeps making excuses for not giving it and saying maybe soon. My questions now are, 'is she just been over cautious?' or 'does she have something to hide?'. I guess to put things simpler, is it Tina that i have been talking to for the last 7 months or has it actually been this brother all along? Given the length of time we have known each other and talked i find the latter hard to believe but after last nites revelation i dont know anymore! After 7 months should i give her the benefit of the doubt or should i say its over? I do like Tina very much and we have so much in common and if she is being honest with me about who she is then i would really like to meet her and get to know her better. At this point tho i just dont know what to believe. There is alot more i could say about the situation but i would be here all day, but those are the key facts above. Your thoughts will be appreciatedTake careGarry

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Pages:    Prev    1   2   3   4     well hope she will answer straight somethings and things will get better...keep us updated okay? take care.. Responded: Psyche   Thanks Psyche i will. I hope she will give me some straight answers too and that things get better but i just have this gut feeling that im not going to get the answers i want/need and infact maybe find out that she has been lying on a grand scale all along. Hopefully im wrong and im just overreacting.Take care and i'll keep you all posted Responded: garry13   Go garry! Good for you in telling her your concerns. You're going to be just alright. I was thinking about something while reading mcshades post and your own.. I don't get her reluctance to give you a cell phone number. A cell phone number can easily be changed in case she thinks you're a freak or whatever. I know I'd be willing to give somebody I've been talking to for 7 months online my number. And I won't even get into the twin brother thing. There is definently something wrong with this girl... Responded: supersonic   Hi supersonic, i dont get her reluctance about her giving me her phone number either! I gave her mine 3 months ago now but all she says is 'maybe' when i ask for hers. I even suggested she put 141 before my number which prevents her number been given out so she could of phoned me and we could of talked without me actually getting her phone number but still i have heard nothing from her. I would of thought after 7 months she would be as curious about me as i am about her and want to talk to find out who i am and stuff. As for her brother if he does exists and is her twin then he has to be the same age as her, 19 but i've been told by 2 people on the forum which he is supposedly posting on that he is 15 years old. Ok we all exaggerate our age a bit sometimes but its another piece of the picture that doesnt fit. I just hate the thought that the last 7 months have been a complete lie and that the person who i love so much doesnt exist Take care Responded: garry13   Pages:    Prev    1   2   3   4